Have you seen this routine by Key and Peale?

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=jRdkrDk0BQ0

if you want to avoid experiences like this while listening to country music, you might look into the genre often called "Americana", if you haven't already. Musically it is closer to the roots of country music, relying more on traditional bluegrass instruments. Most of the performers and songwriters are very lefty and woke, and this is often reflected in the Lyrics. My favorite group in this style is Front Country. https://www.frontcountryband.com/ And of course there is Rhiannon Giddens, who does both original and traditional rural Black music.