I don’t know what it’s like to be black or female. But I’m sure from my own experience that no relationship will work if it was chosen only because the other person was black, or white, or skinny, or because they had large boobs. True Love is love between individuals as individuals not because they possess certain properties or qualities. They love each other because they know there is no one else in the world like their beloved, and no one else could ever substitute for them. When you find that person, you will do anything for them, they will do anything for you, and that relationship will become the cornerstone of your life.