I really appreciate your sensitivity to the challenges of writing about some thing for which you have no direct experience. I have to deal with similar challenges when I write about racial issues, because I have so much privilege. This article is a good example of how to do it. I wrote about some of these challenges here.

https://medium.com/@teedrockwell/the-privileged-access-of-the-underprivileged-91473fe6e7a8