it’s accepted that rape is having sex with somebody who is so drunk they are unconscious, or unconscious for any other reason. but drunkenness comes in degrees, and I don’t think there’s any consensus as to what level of drunkenness is required for a hook up to be rape. I would guess that are very high percentage of college students have sex while drunk, but I doubt if most of us would call all of those interactions rape. if both parties are equally drunk, are they raping each other?