So there are only two things that make you mad: if people like the way you look, and if people don't like the way you look.

I can't make a judgment of how painful this is for you. From what you're sayng here, it seems this resonates with facts like Elvis Presley making 100 times as much money as Little Richard. But I'm a guy, and I know that we are conditioned to be attracted to women who look like the women in the media. If those women start having features that resemble black women, than more men will start finding black women attractive. And that seems to help solve the problem this article is describing.