this implies that the woman in the relationship does not have free choice, because she is being manipulated. I try to describe these relationships in terms of the woman making a bad choice, rather than being manipulated into doing something. I agree with your conclusion more or less, because I’ve seen a lot of relationships between older men and younger women fail. (Although I know a couple of such relationships that have worked extremely well) sometimes the failure causes the relationship to break up, other times the relationship survives with the woman giving up her own career to be his housekeeper and baby machine. Because erotic attraction and the need for a Magus can overlap for a heterosexual woman with a male Magus, this is a very understandable mistake. but it is a mistake that results from the woman making a bad choice, not from the fact that the man is manipulating her.