this is a truth of logic, and this essay is badly lopsided because it ignores it. of course the whole point of the essay is that people under 25 don’t have the power of free choice, so it’s not surprising that it doesn’t occur to the author to ask for their reasons. Did DiCaprio dump these women or did they dump him? The article doesn’t say.
In some cases I’ve known, The problem is that the young woman is confusing the Magus with the lover. Everyone should have a Magus in their life: an older person who can initiate them into the mysteries of their calling. But when a woman has this relationship with her lover, she often ends up having his babies and washing his socks. And resenting him for it. at least, DiCaprio and these women did not go down this route. Were any of these women actresses, or interested in learning any aspect of the movie business? Once again the article doesn’t say.